Ellie Hartfield

Fear of Intimacy: Holding Yourself While Letting Others In (eBook, ePUB)

• Format: ePub

Produktbeschreibung

Fear of Intimacy: Holding Yourself While Letting Others In is a deep, compassionate exploration of why intimacy feels overwhelmingand how to move through it without abandoning yourself. This book does not push for fearless love or radical vulnerability. Instead, it invites a gentle approach, one that honors both the need for connection and the instinct for self-protection.

Using a system-based perspective, this book helps uncover the hidden layers of fear, the ways the nervous system holds onto past experiences, and the protective roles fear plays in relationships. It does not see fear as an obstacle to be removed but as a part of you that can be understood, worked with, and integrated.

What This Book Covers:

✔ Understanding the Root of Fear Why intimacy triggers discomfort, and how past experiences shape present reactions. ✔ Fear's Role in the Nervous System How your body responds to connection before your mind catches up. ✔ The Comfort of Fear Why people unconsciously hold onto fear and how it provides a false sense of control. ✔ Inherited Fear How family, culture, and past relationships shape intimacy fears without conscious awareness. ✔ The False Urgency of Fear Why fear often creates a sense of immediate danger even when none exists. ✔ How Fear Distorts Memory and Future Expectations The mind's habit of reinforcing fear through selective evidence. ✔ Self-Compassion as a Pathway to Intimacy Learning to soften fear without forcing it away. ✔ Integrating Fear Instead of Eliminating It Moving forward with fear rather than waiting for it to disappear.

This book is not about forcing closeness or "fixing" fear. It is about understanding it, holding space for it, and learning how to stay present with yourself while allowing deeper connection with others.

Are you ready to step into intimacy without losing yourself in the process?

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Ellie Hartfield
• Erscheinungstermin: 11. März 2025
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798230316558
• Artikelnr.: 73608567

Autorenporträt

Ellie Hartfield is a freelance graphic designer, writer, and mom of two lively kids who keep her life wonderfully chaotic. When she's not chasing after her preschooler or negotiating bedtime with her kindergartener, Ellie is busy juggling creative projects and exploring the nuances of family life. With a background in navigating the ups and downs of parenthood, work, and everything in between, she brings a relatable and humorous perspective to the challenges of daily life.

Ellie lives with her tech-enthusiast husband and their mischievous sock-stealing dog, Max, who often serves as her muse. Drawing inspiration from her own experiences, Ellie tackles the world of cognitive distortions with a blend of wit, warmth, and a candid look at the thoughts that run wild in all of us.