Philip J Bradbury

Understanding Men (eBook, ePUB)

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Produktbeschreibung

When a man and a woman come together in wholeness, it is the most beautiful and rare of things. When each person is whole within themselves - contented, fulfilled, self-realised and need-less (though not desire-less) - and there is complete love and acceptance for the other, as they are, the world sees the glow and is more joyful. However, very few of us have that wholeness - most of us have some emotional wound(s) or scar(s), yet to be healed. And, as like attracts like, so we attract partners with similar wounds. Caroline Myss calls this "woundology" and if, say, a woman has not been able to resolve (within) the abuse she had from her father, she will most likely attract an abusive partner. And if a man has been "trained" to hide his feelings ("Big boys don't cry") he could easily attract a partner who will not allow him to express himself. Or, the same man may attract a partner who needs and demands of him that he express his feelings, thereby ripping the plaster from an unhealed wound, a wound he is ashamed of but knows not how to heal. And we know not the pain we cause when we're being helpful, sometimes, especially when the other person cannot talk of that pain. No one can heal the pain of another and no one has the responsibility for another's pain. We can be there, we can support, we can listen but we cannot resolve - that has to come from the bearer of the pain. And, until that pain is healed, situations and people will come in to remind, to exacerbate, to expose, to challenge, to annoy - until something is done by the bearer to attempt a healing. When the honest intention of self-healing is there, then the universe sends in the listeners, the friends, the allowers. But not until the intention is there ...

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Philip J Bradbury
• Erscheinungstermin: 13. April 2011
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9781458026866
• Artikelnr.: 48243958

Autorenporträt

I am a writer (20 books), publisher (25 books & a magazine) and teacher/trainer for 25 years accounting, business, men's groups, AIDS and personal and spiritual growth. I've also spent time with several indigenous elders and wisdom-sharers to receive information from as many perspectives as possible. The more people I've talked to, the more similarities there are in their stories. ... they all point to this moment of disruption to expose and expunge the untruths, in order to move to the next 2,400-year period of Caring, Connection and Communication. Therefore, I'm here to help you cope with the current changes so you can create your higher life in order to create the community we all long for ... and know is coming. Summary list of writing/publishing experiences: • Writer of 20 published books, • Publisher of books • Commissioning Editor for Business Books • Publisher of national magazine, • Website Editor/Writer • Columnist for magazines in four countries, • Editor for national magazine, • Reporter for weekly newspaper, • Professional freelance writer, proof-reader and editor for clients in Australia, Czech Republic, Norway, Slovenia, Germany, Romania, Arabia, Britain, Canada and America. I spent 20 years in a boring job to impress my father. I finally realised he wasn't impressed with an accountant son so I slunk sideways into business coaching and teaching and wondered why I'd avoided what I loved for so long. 20 years later, I still love teaching/coaching and have done it ever since, in different countries and in different guises: * Business coaching in NZ, UK and Australia * University lecturing in NZ and UK * Personal development workshops in NZ and Sth Africa * Grief counselling in NZ * Men's groups in NZ * AIDS workshops in Sth Africa From time to time, I played in other occupations, just because I could: * Busking * Building houses * Truck driving, reporter/photographer for a newspaper * Magazine columnist then editor * Magazine publisher * Commissioning editor of books * Writer of 20 books (to date) I've become a Jack of all trades, master of some and a Master of Change, so can help you with your change. Along the way I picked up some qualifications: * BBS Bachelor of Business [Economics & Accountancy majors] degree. * ACA Qualified Accountant. * CAT Certificate in...