Richard Dillon

Shut Up

A Journey into the Lost Art of Listening

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Produktbeschreibung

In a world drowning in noise, we've forgotten how to truly hear each other. We scroll, interrupt, and offer unsolicited advice-mistaking activity for connection. Shut Up is a profound exploration of what happens when we stop trying to fix, impress, or fill the silence, and instead learn to simply stay. Richard Dillon's journey begins in an ordinary café, where a single moment of silence with a grieving friend reveals a truth he'd been missing: real listening isn't about having the right words-it's about being fully present without trying to change anything. This realization becomes the thread that unwinds through his marriage, his parenting, his work, and ultimately, his relationship with himself. Drawing from two decades of Aikido practice, Dillon shows how the body listens before the mind does. On the mat, he learned to read tension, breath, and intention-skills that transform how we meet others in their pain, confusion, and joy. Combined with insights from Nonviolent Communication, Carl Rogers' unconditional positive regard, and cutting-edge neuroscience on co-regulation, this book bridges ancient wisdom with modern understanding. Through intimate stories-a son's anxiety before an exam, a partner's fury that isn't really about the dishes, a difficult customer call that saves a marriage, and the quiet ache of divorce-Dillon reveals how listening shapes everything. He writes with unflinching honesty about his failures: the times he offered advice when his partner needed space, managed conversations instead of meeting them, and heard words while missing what lived beneath them. But this isn't a book about failure-it's about return. About learning that presence is more powerful than perfection, that silence can be sacred, and that the most generous thing we can offer is our undivided attention. Whether you're struggling to connect with your children, navigate conflict with your partner, lead with authenticity, or simply hear your own inner voice, Shut Up offers a path back to the lost art that holds it all together. In learning to listen, we don't just improve our relationships-we transform them. And in the process, we come home to ourselves.

Produktdetails

• Verlag: Good Uke Publishing
• Seitenzahl: 238
• Erscheinungstermin: 1. November 2025
• Englisch
• Abmessung: 222mm x 145mm x 18mm
• Gewicht: 472g
• ISBN-13: 9781764334112
• ISBN-10: 1764334116
• Artikelnr.: 76038364

Autorenporträt

Richard Dillon is a writer, partner, and father who has spent much of his life exploring what it means to listen deeply. After years working in design and web development, he moved into leadership, where he discovered that true influence and trust are built not through what we say, but through how we listen.He holds a diploma in counselling, which he pursued not to practise professionally but to better understand the psychology of relationships and communication. This study, combined with his personal experiences, continues to shape his writing and his approach to life.A long-time practitioner of the martial art Aikido, Richard has learned that discernment, humility, and steady presence matter as much off the mat as they do within training. These lessons are woven throughout his work, alongside reflections from family life and personal growth.Richard lives in Melbourne with his partner Antoinette and his two sons. Shut Up - A journey into the lost art of listening is his first book.