Colton Aoki

Fifty Shades of Gay: A Queer Exploration of Kink & Fetish (eBook, ePUB)

• Format: ePub

Produktbeschreibung

Ready to explore your desires beyond the mainstream? Curious about kink but unsure where to start? Welcome to your essential guide.

For many queer individuals, especially gay, bi, and trans men, the world of kink and fetish holds a powerful allurea space for deeper connection, authentic expression, and profound pleasure. Yet, navigating this world can feel daunting, filled with myths, confusing terminology, and questions about safety and consent. Where do you begin?

Written with warmth, humor, and deep respect by queer kink educator Colton Aoki, this book is your supportive companion on the journey of exploration. Drawing on years of community experience, academic knowledge, and a distinctly queer perspective, Aoki demystifies kink, provides practical tools, and centers the unique experiences of LGBTQ+ folks.

Inside, you'll discover:

• Clear explanations of kink vs. fetish, common practices, and essential terminology.
• Why consent is not just crucial, but sexy, with practical guides to negotiation and safewords.
• Strategies for effective communication to express your desires and boundaries.
• Pathways to move beyond shame and embrace your authentic sexuality.
• How kink intersects with race, gender identity, disability, and other facets of queer life.
• Guidance on finding safe, inclusive communities, both online and offline.
• Insights into roles (Dom/sub, Top/Bottom), tools, scene planning, and the power of ritual.
• Essential knowledge on emotional aftercare, navigating drop, managing triggers, and ethical considerations including financial kinks and digital privacy.
• Tips for crafting a sustainable practice that evolves with you over time.

Whether you're completely new, have a curious partner, or are an experienced player seeking deeper understanding, this non-judgmental guide offers practical advice, reflection prompts, and affirming insights grounded in queer community wisdom. It's time to step onto the playground with confidence and joy. Your journey starts here.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: Aikane
• Erscheinungstermin: 28. April 2025
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798231692606
• Artikelnr.: 74027071

Autorenporträt

Colton Aoki was born and raised on the Big Island of Hawaii, where the powerful landscape of volcanic creation and lush growth shaped his understanding of transformation and resilience. Growing up in a place where multiple cultures blend and coexist, he developed an early appreciation for diversity and the beauty of different ways of being in the world.

After leaving the islands to pursue his education in psychology and human sexuality, Colton found himself drawn to the intersection of identity, desire, and community. His work as a sexuality educator and kink-aware professional has taken him across the country, leading workshops and building bridges between diverse communities.

Drawing from his Hawaiian roots, Colton brings a unique perspective to discussions of kink and sexualityone that honors tradition while embracing growth and change. His approach combines the Hawaiian values of kuleana(responsibility) and malama (care) with contemporary understandings of consent, power, and pleasure.

As a queer man of mixed Japanese and Native Hawaiian ancestry, Colton is passionate about creating resources that center marginalized voices and experiences. When not writing or teaching, he can be found tending to his collection of rare plants, singing at the karaoke bar, or swimming in whatever body of water is closest.

He currently divides his time between Hawaii and the mainland, building connections between kink communities and creating spaces where authentic exploration is welcomed and celebrated.