R Ananda Raju

LOVOLOGY - Decoding The Mystery Of Human Connection (eBook, ePUB)

• Format: ePub

Produktbeschreibung

"Love is not a mystery to be solved by poets, but a complex, measurable system that can be audited and understood."

What the Book Does??

The book defines love as a multidimensional psycho-biological state and a Dynamic Cocktail composed of passionate, companionate, attachment, and compassionate elements. Rather than reducing love to a single emotion, it shows how these components interact, amplify, or undermine one another, and how that interplay shapes real relationships over time.

Why This Changes How You Love

passionate love is a biological drive that hijacks the brain's reward circuitry, attachment is a learned strategy that can be changed, cultural scripts shape how love unfolds, and the digital age both accelerates and distorts those processes.

Passionate love reads like a neural imperative: when we fall hard, dopamine-rich reward pathways ignite in ways that can rival substance addiction, steering attention, risk-taking, and the relentless pursuit of a partner; evolutionary accounts show how pair-bonding likely co-opted older mammalian bonding systems to secure cooperative parenting and resource sharing, and even subtle biological cues such as immune-system markers can nudge attraction and mate choice. At the psychological level, attachment patterns are not moral failures but adaptive strategies-internal working models formed in early caregiving environments that predictably shape expectations, proximity-seeking, and conflict responses; integrating attachment theory with typologies like John Lee's Six Styles and Sternberg's Triangular Theory makes the logic visible: different mixes of intimacy, passion, and commitment produce different relationship trajectories, and crucially, awareness of one's pattern creates the possibility of choice rather than fate. Cross-cultural evidence upends the Western soulmate myth by showing that commitment can precede passion and reliably cultivate deep companionate love in collectivist and arranged-marriage contexts, while attachment systems are flexible enough to support multiple meaningful bonds in ethically negotiated non-monogamous arrangements. Finally, the contemporary diagnosis is ambivalent: dating apps have gamified mate selection into rapid reward loops that privilege novelty and short-term gratification and can inadvertently reinforce avoidant strategies and superficial metrics of desirability. That same digital frontier amplifies the dark side of human mating-love-bombing, hoovering, and coercive control exploit our reward and attachment systems to entrap partners-so a central aim of Lovology is to equip readers with the vocabulary and cognitive tools to recognize manipulative dynamics, resist psychological entrapment, and deliberately cultivate the healthier, slower-growing forms of attachment that sustain long-term flourishing.

Lovology translates science into actionable skills: how to repair ruptures using empirically validated techniques, how to cultivate secure attachment, and how to design relationships that balance passion, stability, and moral care. The scientific gaze, the book argues, does not strip love of wonder; it enlarges it-turning mystery into mastery without killing the magic.

If you want to stop being a passive passenger in your relationships and start steering with evidence, clarity, and compassion, Lovology is your field guide. It gives you the vocabulary to name what's happening, the science to explain why, and the practices to change what comes next. Read it to understand love better-and to love better.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: R Ananda Raju
• Erscheinungstermin: 10. Dezember 2025
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798232395520
• Artikelnr.: 76102291