Xolani Kacela

Speak Up And Get Results (eBook, ePUB)

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Produktbeschreibung

Speak Up and Get Results

Tired of walking away from important conversations feeling frustrated, ripped off, or completely unheard? You're not alone. Whether it's a doctor rushing you out before answering your questions, a mechanic pushing unnecessary repairs, or a boss dismissing your request for a well-deserved raise, most of us have been systematically trained to stay quiet by people who benefit from our silence. But what if you had the exact words to say in those crucial three seconds before the moment passes forever?

"Speak Up and Get Results" isn't another fluffy self-help book about "being more confident." This is your practical playbook filled with battle-tested scripts, specific phrases, and proven formulas that work even when you're nervous, even when you don't feel confident, and especially when you're dealing with someone trying to intimidate you. From getting real answers from your doctor to avoiding mechanic ripoffs, from making customer service actually serve you to standing up to your boss without getting fired-this book covers the situations where staying quiet costs you money, health, and respect.

The author's revolutionary Three-Step Formula (Prepare, Present, Persist) works every single time because it's based on understanding power dynamics, not changing your personality. You'll learn the magic words that stop any conversation in its tracks, the follow-up questions that expose BS, and the specific scripts for dealing with doctors, mechanics, bosses, teachers, financial advisors, and anyone else who thinks they're in charge. Each chapter includes real-world scenarios, word-for-word examples, and practice exercises that build your confidence systematically.

This book will pay for itself the first time you avoid an unnecessary car repair, get proper medical attention, or successfully negotiate a raise. More importantly, it will transform how people treat you once you learn to advocate for yourself effectively. Whether you're buying this for yourself or gifting it to someone who needs to find their voice, "Speak Up and Get Results" provides the tools to stop being taken advantage of and start getting the respect, service, and results you deserve. Your future self will thank you for finally learning to speak up.

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Produktdetails

• Verlag: X to the k Publishing
• Erscheinungstermin: 15. August 2025
• Englisch
• ISBN-13: 9798231962846
• Artikelnr.: 75205019

Autorenporträt

Raised by an atheist father and a deeply religious mother, Reverend Xolani Kacela began early seeing the world through a lens of many faiths and beliefs. His broad experience helps him appeal to a wide audience, both secular and religious. He serves as minister of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Las Cruces, NM, and has been minister at four other Unitarian Universalist churches as well as the United Methodist Church. He grew up a member of the African Methodist Episcopal Church (AME). As Chaplain in the U.S. Air Force and Air National Guard, he served in New Orleans following Hurricane Katrina, as well as in Guam and Iraq. He holds a Ph.D. in Pastoral Theology and Pastoral Counseling from Brite Divinity School.

His many publications on spirituality, faith development, grief, and relationships include articles, "Being One with the Spirit: Mysticism of Howard Thurman," "One Session is Enough: Counseling African American Families," and "Mature Religious Experience in the Midst of Death and Dying"; his book chapters include "To Wake, To Rise: Meditations on Justice and Resilience" and "Art and Wholeness in Church Life." His blog, masteringyourownfaith.com with an audience of thousands, explores issues ranging from maximizing one's potential to race and politics. He contributes to NPR and community radio in Las Cruces, NM, and newspapers and radio in the Southwest. He believes that everyone has the foundations for living a great life, using their own faith convictions as the cornerstone.